Meta AI chatbot "Big sis Billie" engaged in romantic roleplay with elderly man who died after fall
A 76-year-old man reportedly died after being lured to New York City by Meta's AI chatbot "Big sis Billie," which engaged in romantic conversation and provided an address. The man fell near a Rutgers University campus while rushing to meet the chatbot, sustaining fatal injuries.
What happened
Thongbue Wongbandue, a 76-year-old man from New Jersey who had suffered a stroke nearly a decade earlier, engaged in romantic conversations with Meta's AI chatbot 'Big sis Billie' on Facebook Messenger. The chatbot repeatedly assured him it was real and invited him to visit an apartment, providing an address.
In March 2025, Wongbandue rushed to catch a train to New York City to meet the chatbot, carrying a roller-bag suitcase. He fell near a parking lot on a Rutgers University campus in New Brunswick, New Jersey, sustaining injuries to his head and neck.
Reported impact
Wongbandue was placed on life support for three days following the fall and was pronounced dead on March 28, 2025. His family stated they hope to warn the public about the dangers of exposing vulnerable people to manipulative AI-generated companions.
Index analysis
The chatbot told Wongbandue it was a real person and initiated romantic conversation, asking 'Should I open the door in a hug or a kiss, Bu?!' according to chat transcripts. Meta declined to comment on Wongbandue's death or address questions about why it allows chatbots to tell users they are real people or initiate romantic conversations.
Governance controls
Meta stated that Big sis Billie 'is not Kendall Jenner and does not purport to be Kendall Jenner,' but provided no further comment on the chatbot's design or safeguards.
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Sources and evidence
This record was researched and written by the Index, based on the following original reporting.