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AI-Generated Digital Exes Spark Privacy and Emotional Concerns in China

In China, young people are reportedly using AI tools to create digital versions of their ex-partners by uploading personal data like chat histories and photos. The trend has raised concerns about privacy, emotional reliance, and ethical boundaries in using AI for intimate relationships.

2 May 2026 Β· Privacy and surveillance
2 May 2026
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Quick facts
Organization
Zhou Tianyi
Category
Privacy and surveillance
Country
China
Source
The Times of India
Date
2 May 2026
Drafted by
Raidu Incident Detection

What happened

In China, a trend has emerged among young people using AI tools to create digital versions of their ex-partners. Users upload personal data including chat histories, social media content, and photos into an AI platform called 'Ex-partner.skill' to construct a digital replica.

The AI-generated versions can be further refined by adding personal details such as shared experiences, travel memories, habits, anniversaries and past conflicts. The resulting virtual personas are capable of holding conversations that mirror the tone and thought patterns of the original person.

Reported impact

The trend has sparked concerns from critics regarding privacy, emotional reliance and the broader ethical boundaries of using technology in intimate relationships.

The practice offers a novel coping mechanism for heartbreak, though the emotional impact of prolonged interaction with AI replicas of ex-partners remains unclear.

Index analysis

The concept traces back to an open-source project called 'Colleague.skill,' developed by Shanghai-based AI engineer Zhou Tianyi. The original project was intended to create reusable AI skill packages from workplace communications and documentation, allowing organisations to preserve and leverage employees' knowledge.

The technology was later adapted for personal use, enabling individuals to upload intimate personal data to create and interact with AI-generated representations of former partners.

Classification

Organization
Zhou Tianyi
Category
Privacy and surveillance
Industry
Consumer services
Country
China
Harm status
Potential harm
Intent
Unintentional
Timing
Unknown
Harm types
Psychological
Harmed
Consumers
Failure modes
Training data misuse
AI systems
Ex-partner.skill, Colleague.skill

Sources and evidence

This record was researched and written by the Index, based on the following original reporting.

The Times of India
Virtual Partners: This breakup trend is raising eyebrows: People are now recreating their exes with AI - The Times of India
3 May 2026
The Indian Express
In China, an AI dating trend that lets users simulate conversations with exes
2 May 2026
International Business Times, Singapore Edition
Move Over Dating Apps: AI-Powered 'Digital Exes' Are Becoming China's New Break-Up Trend
2 May 2026
South China Morning Post
China trend of digital exes to help people heal from heartbreak sparks debate
2 May 2026